Holidays Upon Us

Singlegal
Last year, I took the holidays off. It was my first season as a divorcee and I avoided family under the guise that I did not wish to explain “what happened” over and over again. While the holidays were a tad lonely, I filled them with friends and activities and made it through just fine. [...]

Home Stressful Home

GoodbyeGal
I’ve been dealing with a lot of life choices lately and not really happy about having to do so. When I asked Ex to move out months ago I decided that I wanted to remain in the home we had purchased together. I had heard about a program developed by President Obama to help homeowners [...]

Tags: Divorce, foreclosure, losing your love

The Email

Singlegal
It’s been a rough week with many different things going on at many different levels. For some reason, in all of this, the daily emails with Ex have been irking me. Yes, we still email daily, usually just to say “hello”, catch up on our cats, or just see what’s going on in each other’s [...]

Wowzers! What a Weekend

GoodbyeGal
I’m about (over)due for a post and I am sure you are all just dying to know about the excitement that is my life!?
It actually has been. I have been living single for about 3 weeks now. My booty call, who you may know as JB – has turned out to be the worst ever! [...]

All By Myself

GoodbyeGal
Ex has left the building …. *pops the champagne and passes out party hats*
This is my second night in “My” condo – all by myself. No more wondering if he will be home. Just me and the kitties and I don’t know that they even notice he isn’t here.
Ex asked me to play nicely before [...]

I’m No Angel

GoodbyeGal
I cheated on my husband.
The first time it happened was during spring break and it was your typical “heat of the moment” thing and I never heard from him again. I had been with Ex for 5 years and it had been nearly 3 since he had been intimate with me.
Seven years later it happened [...]