Don’t be an Elmo.

GoodbyeGal
So, I get a message the other day from a guy who found my dating profile and wanted to say hi. He wrote a very brief but friendly email and included a pic, which I  appreciated since his public profile did not contain one.
He looked pretty normal and I noticed he was from the area, [...]

Dating UP.

Singlegal
About a year ago, I was sitting in my car and listening to a guy I was “dating” talk about how he’s never been to the dentist. This guy was overweight, self-centered, immature, shiftless and occasionally, a little smelly. And yet, this was the third date I had been out on with him. I had [...]

Learning and Living in Singletude

GoodbyeGal
I’ve been tossing about some thoughts on changing the way I interact with potential dates through the various dating sites. Being an inexperienced “dater” I expected I would learn and revise my strategies as time passed.
Initially I jumped into online dating as if it were any other social network, moving quickly from messages though the [...]

Tags: Dating, living single, Online Dating

Movin’ on Up

GoodbyeGal

I’ve made my decision. .. I’m moving!
It’s been really hard to face the reality that I just can not afford to live in the home that Ex and I once occupied. I tried to make it work, I revised my budget and contemplated a roommate, I even contacted the bank and applied for multiple programs [...]

Tags: Divorce, Moving on, Moving up, new start