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GoodbyeGal
I’ve been dealing with a lot of life choices lately and not really happy about having to do so. When I asked Ex to move out months ago I decided that I wanted to remain in the home we had purchased together. I had heard about a program developed by President Obama to help homeowners [...]

Tags: Divorce, foreclosure, losing your love

Soul-Mates

Singlegal
Once upon a time, I believed in soul mates.
My definition? That somewhere, out there, there are the someone(s) you were destined to be with. You would live a magical fairy tale existence full of passion and promise. You would attain your happily ever after.
I never believed there was just one person. Seriously – [...]

Yes Or No

Singlegal
A quick post, before I shoot off to meet Agent Orange. Well, and observation, and then a question.
My current practice when a guy contacts me on a dating service that I am not interested in (for whatever reason) is not to reply to their message. I found that this is the practice I prefer [...]

Dinner and a Movie

Singlegal
Last night, I had my final outing with Nice Guy. For a brief history, I’d gone back and forth with him, wanting to give it a try because there was so much that was like able about him, but I couldn’t quite put my finger on the why I couldn’t get comfortable. Well, our “date” [...]

Please, Jump My Bones

Singlegal & Goodbyegal

@Goodbyegal and I find ourselves in a uniquely similar circumstance once again. Many of us have been there at one point or another, and many of you bloggers have covered this topic before. You know the one. <Cue the Sex and the City Music>.
What do you do when you really like a [...]

Why I’ll Always Love My Wedding Ring

Singlegal
“My wedding ring is a symbol that I was once loved” ~ Suzanne Finnamore, Split
Occasionally, I’m asked what became of my wedding ring. I took it off the day after Ex left, and even wrote a blog post about it. But I haven’t pawned it or sold it, and it’s doubtful I ever will.
I love [...]