Archive for October, 2008

Dear future fomer in-laws:

I know I have grown very distant over the past three years and I want you to know that it’s isn’t you, it’s me. I got to a point where I couldn’t fake it any more. I was not happy and I didn’t want to hide it. I love your son/brother/grandson/nephew/cousin… but we’ve grown very [...]

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Divorce, Getting Single, GoodbyeGal
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Let’s Be Friends

Singlegal
It’s a normal Thursday evening, and I am driving home when the song “Bullet with Butterfly Wings” by the Smashing Pumpkins comes on the radio. It catches my breathe. I have not heard this song in quite some time, and it’s my favorite by the Smashing Pumpkins. In fact, this was a long standing [...]

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Getting Single, SingleGal
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Sigh.

I’ve been sighing very heavy lately. I get this feeling like there are too many thoughts in my head all spinning out of control and as more and more get added they start to weigh me down. The sighs are only temproary relief. My thoughts are heavy and will only get heavier in the coming [...]

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Divorce, Getting Single, GoodbyeGal
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All My Children

Fertile thoughts from Singlegal
An interesting phenomena has cropped up in the wonderful world of singlehood. I noticed it months ago, right when I became “single”, but it keeps coming up and I’m occasionally at a lost for how to handle this subject. In my head, I call this dilemma “to spawn, or not to [...]

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Getting Single, SingleGal
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Games

Lessons Learned by GoodbyeGal
I guess I never really knew about the games people play when it comes to courting. I had forgotten those feelings of longing desire for someone who is often so close you can taste them, but you never seem to get a good grip. I realized the other day that the last [...]

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Dating, Getting Single, GoodbyeGal
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Me? You want relationship advice from Me?

Some Raw Thoughts by GoodbyeGal
So over the past few weeks I’ve somehow become a new wave Ann Landers of online relationships. I gotta admit it beats a month and a half ago when a friend in the office was quizzing me for Wedding advice. I guess I can’t blame here, I am quite a visionary [...]

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Dating, Divorce, Getting Single, GoodbyeGal
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